Sunday, April 29, 2012

Bully


I was once accused of not taking action for a mom who thought her daughter was being bullied in my home. Instead of accusing blindly, I sought out to know what had happened, giving a fair chance (to whom she accused) to tell their side of the story.  It turned out to be a miscommunication. By the time I wanted to clear the air, I was suddenly accused by the mom of being not a good friend, apparently because I supported the bully. 

But when I tried to understand what she meant, I googled what bullying can actually mean and this is what I found:

Bullying is any form that causes damage to a victim’s psyche and/or emotional well-being. Examples include:

  • spreading malicious rumors about people
  • keeping certain people out of a "group"
  • getting certain people to "gang up" on others (It also could be considered physical bullying)
  • ignoring people on purpose - the silent treatment, also known as 'Sending to Coventry'
  • harassment
  • provocation

So at the end of the day, who's the actual big bully now????

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